Showing posts with label Virginia Tech. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Virginia Tech. Show all posts
Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Should the Bin Laden Pictures Have Been Released?


Today, the White House announced that President Obama has decided not to release photographs of Osama bin Laden's dead body. As reported in the press, there was some disagreement over whether releasing them would be a good idea. One view was that it would convince people that he is actually dead. The other was that it would "inflame" his followers, in part because it might be seen as an act of disrespect.

I actually don't have any opinion about whether either of these arguments is true. I was interested, however, that, at least publicly, a third issue was not being discussed. These pictures are described as "gruesome." What effect would seeing them have on your average person on the street?

I myself don't really need to see "gruesome" images. Just as I felt triggered by listening to audio of people screaming on 9-11, I find certain kinds of images very disturbing. Over the years, for example, I have studiously avoided the video of people jumping out of the twin towers. I don't need to see it to understand what happened, but seeing it is too vivid for me. It takes me from the reasonable point of needing to understand others' trauma to being traumatized myself.

Now, it's perfectly reasonable to say that we don't censor the press to protect Naomi Zikmund-Fisher from objectionable images. If I don't want to look, I won't -- just as is the case with the 9-11 videos. This relies, however, on media outlets handling the images in a manner that acknowledges that not everyone wants to see them, or wants their children to see them.

I vividly remember the day more than 4 years ago when I hooked up my laptop to a projector to show a website to some kids, opened my browser (which had CNN as its startup page) and was confronted by -- and confronted my students with -- a picture of the Virginia Tech shooter aiming a firearm at the camera. I had some explaining to do to some parents, and I wished CNN had made it just a tiny bit harder to see those pictures.

This is a free society, and we don't censor our press. If my sensibilities, or even the sensibilities of a lot of people, were the sole issue, the pictures of bin Laden should have been released. The President has decided not to, and I know that a lot more went into that decision than whether they would be traumatizing to the average American. This is a good occasion to remember, however, that sensory input -- sights, sounds, smells, tastes and feelings -- can trigger very strong emotional reactions, much more intense than just hearing about a traumatic event. While we shouldn't prohibit them, we should be careful about exposing people to them by accident.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

VA Tech Student's Body Found, and It's a Whole New Ballgame


A body which appears to be that of Morgan Harrington, a 20 year-old student at Virginia Tech, was found today, more than three months after and a few miles away from where she was last seen after a concert in Charlottesville, Virginia.  She disappeared on October 17 and was last seen walking alone down a nearby road.  Human remains were found today on a farm southwest of Charlottesville, and investigators are pretty sure they are hers.

Two weeks ago, her mother wrote in her blog:
I pray that the truth of this crime shows itself while Morgan is still alive. I have no interest in recovering a body. I would rather not know and always have some morsel of hope.
The discovery today is a direct blow to what her mother wanted and must have known might happen.  At the same time, I'm not sure any of us can really know what outcome, other than finding her alive, would be better unless we've lived it.

Whether or not finding Morgan's body is better or worse for her family, it certainly does represent a new chapter in their efforts to deal with her disappearance.  Having a family member disappear is an ongoing event.  Whatever peace you make with what has happened comes slowly.  It is traumatic and awful, but it is not final. 

Now that her body has been found, however, Morgan's family will have to take everything they've come to understand and deal with about what might have happened to her and combine it with the new knowledge that she is never coming home.  That inevitably will bring with it new questions, doubts and fears, and with them will come new post-traumatic symptoms (or recurrence of the old ones).  Effectively, this is a new trauma.

At some point investigators may figure out what happened to Morgan Harrington.  If and when that happens, it will represent yet another new chapter in her family's recovery.  The new information will need to be processed and dealt with and understood, and the images and thoughts associated with it will be intrusive for a while.  The arrest and trial of a suspect may bring new feelings once again.

So, in that sense, maybe Morgan's mother was right.  Maybe it would be better not to know, because at least that was a steady, unchanging fact even if it left a lot of uncertainty.  Now that certainty is here, on the other hand, the next phase of healing can begin.


Friday, November 6, 2009

No Easy Answers: The Why's and Wherefores of Fort Hood and Orlando


He had compassion fatigue. He was a Muslim. He had money problems. He was depressed. He was disgruntled. He didn't want to deploy. He was a terrorist. He was harassed. He faced discrimination. He hated his boss. He was turned down for unemployment. He blamed the company. He blamed the army. He should have been stopped.

Today, as America reels from the second mass shooting in as many days, the blogosphere and the traditional media are lighting up with commentary on why the shooters in the Fort Hood and Orlando killings did what they did. If you google the stories, you find headline after headline with various speculation about motive, interspersed with the occasional article referring to the motives in each shooting as a "mystery."

Human beings don't like uncertainty, as I discussed yesterday. And the media doesn't like to report anything nuanced, and certainly not "we don't know." Where's the human interest in that? So we look for answers, and sometimes the answers we come up with sound good . . . until you think about them.

The shooter at Fort Hood is a psychiatrist. He had treated many people who suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Now there is speculation that this experience caused him to be traumatized himself, and in turn caused yesterday's shootings. No sooner had that theory hit the airwaves then we had articles arguing the opposite -- that PTSD is not contagious, and we are just making excuses.

The truth is, PTSD is indeed contagious, in a documented phenomenon called "compassion fatigue" or sometimes secondary or vicarious traumatization. People who work with the traumatized are susceptible to symptoms of trauma themselves -- this is a documented phenomenon and there are documented ways to try to prevent it. But as much as compassion fatigue is a real thing, most people who have it don't shoot people. Saying that is the cause is much too simplistic.

The shooter is also Muslim, true. And yet, most people who are Muslim don't shoot people either. And if mass shootings are caused by being Muslim, how do we account for the Orlando shooter, who certainly wasn't, or the perpetrator in the Pittsburgh gym shootings, or at Virginia Tech, or Columbine? Why is the Fort Hood shooting "terrorism" and those are horrible violent crime?

In Orlando, the shooter almost certainly was a disgruntled former employee with money problems. This is all true. But how many thousands of people fit that description, and never hurt a fly? How many hurt themselves but not others? How do you know who is who and which is which. Unfortunately, you don't.

There is a lot of commentary today suggesting that we as a country are hesitant to admit the "truth" about Fort Hood, and I think they are right. But that truth isn't that the shooter was a Muslim terrorist. That truth is that we just don't know. We may someday, or we may not. And if we don't know, we can't know it won't happen again, and that scares us.

We want to think that if we exclude certain ethnicities or nationalities or religions from our lives, we will prevent the next shooting from happening to us. We want to believe that if we know the Fort Hood shooter was a terrorist, we can protect ourselves by staying away from terrorists. But in Orlando, we discovered that that isn't true either. And that scares us more, so we pretend there's no inconsistency there, no nuance. It seems we'd rather live with our bigotry in this country than with our fear of what is random.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Sometimes a Campus Shooting is Just a Shooting


Imagine there is an argument half a mile from your house.  Someone is shot.  The perpetrators run, and it's not clear in what direction.  You are minding your own business in your house.  What would you do?  Depending on where you live, your answer is most likely nothing.  Unless there is reason to think the perpetrators are headed for your house, you probably wouldn't even know about it. 

But imagine you're not in your house.  Your in a class at a community college, and there is a shooting half a mile away, on the other side of campus.  This is what happened yesterday at Skyline College, a community college in San Bruno, CA.  And let me tell you, the response wasn't "nothing."  The campus locked down, then evacuated.  SWAT teams were all over the place.  Classes were canceled for the evening, and then for today while the investigation continued.  Why such a huge reaction for an incident in which a single person was shot and no one was killed?

Because it happened on a college campus, and we as a nation are absolutely terrified about shootings at schools and on college campuses.  When we open up the "shooting on college campus" file drawer in our minds, what comes out is really awful.  We perceive college students as sitting ducks, vulnerable to violent rampages.  And we are afraid of missing something, or branding something as small when it turns out to be really big.  We are afraid of Virginia Tech. 

Obviously there are some contexts that warrant bigger responses than others.  A shooting 10 blocks away in a high crime area of New York City is less alarming than a shooting half a mile from the White House where the gunman is yelling political slogans.  A shooting where the motive and perpetrator are known is less alarming than something random.  But at the heart of it, I have to ask whether all violence on a college campus has to be treated like the entire place is under siege, and to wonder what it is that they thought they knew at Skyline yesterday that I don't know.


Thursday, August 20, 2009

The Ghosts of Virginia Tech


On April 16, 2007, a student at Virginia Tech University went on a shooting rampage and killed 32 people before completing his own suicide. Today, the records on the shooter from the Cook Counseling Center at Virginia Tech were released, with permission from his family. These records were apparently illegally removed from the center and only recently discovered at an employee's home.

What the school records show is that this student made some suicidal comments and gestures in 2005 and was hospitalized. They also indicate that he was not homicidal to the best of the Center's knowledge and that they did not believe him to be a current threat to himself or others, although he was depressed and having difficulty with the stress of college life.

I have every respect for the families and memories of those who died at Virginia Tech and for those who were traumatized by living through that experience. I also believe that lessons can and have been learned about campus safety and crisis communication at colleges. But I also have to question what end is now served by rehashing this man's psychiatric history.

As you frequent Quarterbackers all know, our minds go to blame very quickly when we are traumatized. We want someone to be at fault and we want them to have consequences. We want trauma to be preventable so we don't have to feel scared. And make no mistake about it, this shooting scared anyone who lives, works or knows anyone on a college campus.

At the same time, the person truly at fault here was the shooter. We can file lawsuits, change policies and stage inquiries, but human beings fundamentally have free will. Stopping someone who is hell bent on killing and who does not care if he dies too is always going to be devilishly hard. And what's more, no matter where we pin the blame, we will never know if someone doing things differently would have made any difference.

Let me say that again. We will never know if this shooter could have been stopped. In our quest for a feeling of safety and security and to place blame, we cannot achieve what we really want, which is to know this will never happen to anyone ever again. We are, again, reminded that there is no such thing as closure.

What I worry is that people looking back at records like these, knowing how the story ends, will want colleges and counselors and hospitals to clamp down on people who seem to be "like" this shooter. In the case of these particular records, that would probably mean mandatory counseling, hospitalization and/or expulsion for depressed college students who express suicidal ideation and seem to be having difficulty adjusting to college life. That's an awful lot of people, most of whom never go on shooting rampages or even have a psychiatric diagnosis. I count myself among them.

Something happened to this shooter between December of 2005 and April of 2007. We don't know what that was, really, and we can't ever know for sure. It may be that the system failed in this case, and it may be that this could have been prevented. But let's make sure, in our efforts to be more vigilant, that we don't wind up pegging everyone with a bad day as a killer.


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Naomi Zikmund-Fisher
is a clinical social worker, former school Principal and a Crisis Consultant for schools and community organizations. You can learn more about her at www.SchoolCrisisConsultant.com
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